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The courtship app
Play first. Warm up together. Never get ghosted.
unsneak turns every match into a little courtship. A 60-second game breaks the ice, you warm up only as fast as you both say yes, and it ends with a real date pitched for the two of you. Or an honest goodbye. Never silence.
This Halloween
No ghosts allowed.
The scariest thing on your phone isn't a ghost story. It's a chat that just stops. On unsneak, every courtship ends in a real date or a kind goodbye, and if someone goes quiet, we say goodbye for them. Gently.
Leave the Limbo
Dating apps gave us the Limbo.
Forty open chats. Nobody ends anything. You wonder for weeks if anyone's still there. We think that's lonely, and fixable. So we built the opposite.
The Limbo
Judge a face alone, then stare at an empty chat box.
One pace for everyone, set by which app you happened to download.
Chats that drift on for weeks, then just stop.
Pay to be seen. Pay to see who liked you.
A Courtship
Play first. A 60-second Round together, before anyone types "hey".
You set the pace. The Dial only turns when you both say yes.
A guaranteed ending. A real date, or a kind goodbye. Never silence.
Never pay to be seen. Seeing who invited you is free. Always.
How it works
A courtship, in five small steps.
Every match on unsneak has a beginning, a middle and an ending. You always know where you stand.
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Step 1
Match with an Invitation
No bare likes. Every Invitation carries a first line in their own words.
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Step 2
Play a Round
A 60-second game for two. Answers stay sealed until you've both played.
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Step 3
Warm up at your pace
Turn the Dial from Charm to Spark and beyond, only when you both say yes.
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Step 4
A real date, pitched for you
We suggest a specific, public place that fits you both. One tap to ask.
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Or
An honest goodbye
Not feeling it? Say so kindly, in a tap. Go quiet for 72 hours and we'll say it for you, gently.
The Dial
You set the pace. Together.
Every courtship starts sweet. It only gets bolder when you both privately say "I'd like to turn it up". If only one of you does, nobody ever knows.
Turning it up takes two blind yeses.
Stepping back takes one tap, and nobody is told why.
No pestering: one request per stage every two days, at most.
Charm
Curiosity and compliments. Light Rounds, small luxuries, first impressions.
Spark
Teasing and laughing. Would-you-rather duels, hum-a-song, rate my chat-up line.
Adventure
Small, wholesome dares. Side quests around the city and bolder date ideas.
Close
Slower, softer, more romantic. Only after you've both been verified and have talked or met.
Try it now
Play a Round. It takes 60 seconds.
This is how every unsneak match begins: no blank chat box, just a quick game for two.
Five quick choices
Go with your gut. There are no wrong answers, only revealing ones.
The reveal
See your picks next to Rowan's. Matching answers make a "same brain" spark.
A date, pitched
Your answers become a real date idea in Dublin or Bengaluru.
You & Rowan
Sample Round · Charm
60s
Safety is the product
Romance feels better when you feel safe.
Safety isn't a settings page on unsneak. It's built into every step, and it's never behind a paywall.
Women-first
We open in waves, women first, to keep things balanced. In a courtship, she's never nudged on his behalf.
You set the pace
The Dial moves only on a mutual yes. Step back any time, silently, with no effect on your record.
Scam shield
We watch for the patterns scammers use, like rushing you off the app or talking money, and warn you gently.
Lookout, for every date
Share My Date sends a friend the who, where and when. Set a check-in, or ask for a "call me with an excuse".
The Honest Report
Every quarter we'll publish how many courtships got an ending, how fast we handled reports and what we removed.
We review every report, and urgent safety reports first. First dates are always pitched at public places with opening hours.
Read our community promiseIn writing
Promises we'll hold ourselves to.
Easy to say. So we're writing them down, and we'll show our working every quarter.
Never pay to be seen.
Safety, closure, the Dial, stepping back and seeing who invited you are always free. We'll never sell boosts, queue-jumps or your data.
The full pledgeYour words stay yours.
AI never writes messages as you, and there are no AI partners here. It works backstage: date ideas, safety checks, captions.
Read the charterReal numbers, every quarter.
Closure rate, response times, accounts removed. The first report comes 90 days after launch, once there's real data to share.
What we'll publishWhere
One city at a time, done properly.
A courtship app only works when there are lovely people nearby. So we're starting small and local.
Launching Valentine's 2027
Dublin
Our first city. Invite-only and women-first, opening in waves so it's balanced and lively from day one. Ireland only at launch.
Join the Dublin waitlist
Waitlist open
Bengaluru
Garden city, great coffee, terrible traffic. Join the waitlist and help us decide when to open. Every friend you bring counts.
Join the Bengaluru waitlistunsneak Hosts
Run a supper club, a quiz or a run club?
List your singles-friendly nights on unsneak. Verified guests, balanced numbers, and a courtship can start at your venue.
Fair questions
Good to know
What's a "courtship app"?
Every match on unsneak becomes a short courtship with a beginning, a middle and an ending. You play a quick Round first, warm up only as fast as you both say yes, and it always ends in a real date or a kind goodbye. Never the Limbo.
What happens if someone just goes quiet?
If someone goes silent for 72 hours, unsneak closes the courtship for them with a gentle, neutral goodbye. You'll never be left wondering. The person who went quiet sees a note on their own Honest Record, without any shaming.
Can the Dial be used to pressure someone?
No. A one-sided "turn it up" is never shown to the other person, requests are limited, stepping back is silent and instant, and there's a dedicated report reason for being pressured about the Dial.
Why women-first?
Balanced, safe rooms make better dates for everyone. We'll invite women first and open to everyone in waves. In a man-and-woman courtship, only she gets the app's "turn it up?" prompt.
Is it free?
Yes, the core is free: two courtships at a time, Rounds, Tonight, safety tools, goodbyes and seeing who invited you. Premium adds more courtships and richer rituals. It never buys visibility or a better record.
Is unsneak available in the UK or Northern Ireland?
Not at launch. We're starting in Ireland, Dublin first, and we'll only expand when we can do it properly. Bengaluru has a waitlist open now.
Be courted again.
Join the waitlist for Dublin or Bengaluru. Invite your friends to move up the list, and we'll see you on Valentine's.